The full Halloween story actually starts on the Sunday before Halloween. This is important, because it is the only way you will see Niya’s full costume. We had a neighborhood Halloween party. Here are some pictures of the kids before we headed over for the festivities.
We went to the party. The kids had a great time. We came home from the party. We put away the costumes for Halloween.
Picture three calendar pages (the daily kind) floating by. It’s Halloween. The kids have a half day. They get home from school. Niya immediately goes to Anthony’s house to play. Sam goes upstairs to draw with his smelly markers (his favorite is mango).
At three, Terri tells the kids to pop in the car so they can pick me up from work. Mind you, the request goes like this, “Please get in the car so we can get Mama. Once she’s home we’re going to carve our pumpkins and then get ready for trick-or-treating.” This should not be a hard sell.
Niya: “No! I am playing with Anthony. I’m not going.”
Sam: “No! I am drawing. Leave me home.”
A few minutes later, everyone is in the car and they are on the way to pick me up. Ter calls to tell me to be ready. I can’t hear her over the sounds of Niya shrieking. I offer to stay at work longer.
I am fetched. We stop to look for shoes for Niya to wear to Synagogue on Saturday since she’s singing, but no luck. She’s a 12.5 and everything was either too big or too small.
We get home. Niya rockets out of the car and over to Anthony’s house. Sam goes upstairs, pumpkin in hand, and we carve out the faces. We were trying for angry, but both kids said it ended up looking like an Asian pumpkin. Great. I made a racial caricature to put on my porch. I tried to fix it, but I think I made it worse. That pumpkin was added to the compost heap immediately the next morning. The second pumpkin, obviously the smaller and less visible one, came out okay.
Here’s how the pumpkins looked:
Meanwhile, Terri, who is clever, wrote a poem riddle and texted it to our neighborhood friends letting them know there were special treats to the side of the driveway for them. They were guarded by the cat-scarecrow that Niya and Grandma made.
The treats were in the bag- Doritos and Kit Kats. The kids loved it.
By then we were ready to feed the kids dinner. Spaghetti sauce with browned turkey and focaccia garlic bread and peas. A delicious dinner by any measure. Niya turned it down to eat with Anthony. Sam ran around like a banshee hopped up on sugar (he hadn’t had any yet). Grandma, Terri, and I enjoyed dinner.
I dragged Niya home and costumed her. A little. She refused her mask, arm and leg bands, and all weaponry. She fidgeted through the whole process and jetted out the door before the belt was firmly tied.
Sam worked hard to hold still while every last lace on his costume was laced and tied.
We went over to Anthony’s since that was apparently going to be the only way we’d ever see our daughter. Sure enough, she was playing football.
I hadn’t realized the importance of the pre-trick-or-treating game.
We finally pulled the kids away from football to be photographed. You can see how delighted Niya was by the change in activity.
That second one was what I got when I asked for a Ninja pose.
On the other hand, here is Sam’s response to being asked to pose:
Grandma was perhaps less than pleased when I encouraged Sam to act like he was attacking her.
After a lot of cajoling, the football game ended, the photoshoot was brought to a close, and we all started off on our trick-or-treating adventure.
And then it got dark and we all know about my photography skills and changes in light, so this is the last of the pictures.
The kids did a good job of only going to houses with external lights on. They did nice clear loud calls of “Trick or treat!” and mostly remembered to say thank-you without parental prompting.
In past years, we’ve pretty much done the three dead-end streets and called it quits. This year though, the kids were bigger and the group was smaller. We did three full blocks. Then Niya and Anthony did all the dead-end streets as well. Sam, however, ran out of steam and so he and I headed back home early. He sat on the front porch and handed out candy. Just like his first Halloween with us, I think the distributing of candy was his favorite part.
Everyone was back home and inside by 7:15. Both kids went through their candy and picked out the ten pieces they were going to eat. The rest went back into pumpkins and under parental control.
By 8:00, the candy had been devoured, Niya had discovered she doesn’t like red-hots and Sam found he didn’t like Snickers. Sam’s best treat was a rice-crispy bar. Niya’s was the jolly-rancher fruit chew. Their teeth had been THOROUGHLY brushed, pajamas were on, and everyone piled into bed. I read them the next chapter of Aliens on Vacation and they were both off to sleep.
I was just grateful that we’d gotten through the night- and that there wasn’t another one for a whole year!